Hans Christian King on Asking Spirit for Love and Letting the Struggle End

Erik asked how Hans guides people to request relationships from Spirit, from the universe, however a person wants to name that larger thing. Hans kept it plain. Speak to it. Call it Spirit, call it God, call it whatever feels true to you, and say the words: please open doors so I can find where I'm meant to be in finding a real partner. Ask for help. He doesn't dress it up beyond that.

Then he pointed to the couples who actually last. Look at the ones that worked against the odds, the pairings where everyone wondered how on earth those two ever found each other. The reason, he says, is that they could see each other. Not the face. Not the body. The soul underneath, and the knowledge that the soul loves them. Everything else is noise. He mentioned that he grew up in Los Angeles, right by Hollywood, so he's had a lifetime of watching things get sold as more than they are. The work, then, is on yourself, so that when another person looks at you there's that charge that connects the two of you both directions at once. It happens all the time, he says.

With a few minutes left in the call, Erik asked if there was anything else Hans wanted to put out there. Hans went back to something he'd said before: God doesn't love anyone on this planet more than God loves you. If you clear that bar, then surely you clear your own. He recalled the old line about most people living out their days in quiet desperation and admitted there's something to it.

He brought in the Buddhist idea of the oneness of self, the notion that simply being who you are is already enough. Once you understand that nothing you could ever do will make you any more acceptable to God than you are at this moment, the fighting stops. Each of us carries a dharma. Each of us picked certain lessons to wrestle with while we're here. But no one is marked out for ruin. The ruin and the hatred in the world come from people, he insists, not from God.

So no one is on their own. Reach that source, carry it back into daily life, and things change. He pointed people to his website to read the accounts for themselves. He's seen it play out and taken part in it for sixty years and three months.